This is the most silent and dangerous. It happens when you say “yes” to paths that aren’t yours.
Helping everyone but yourself scatters your focus and extinguishes your calling. Not everything good is meant for you.
Practical tips and recommendations:
Learn to say no without guilt and without lengthy explanations.
Set clear boundaries before offering help.
Decide whether what you give is a gift or a loan, never something ambiguous.
Take care of your peace as an irreplaceable asset.
Review which relationships strengthen you and which drain you.
Protect your reputation, your time, and your focus as part of your heritage.
Remember: helping from conviction brings peace; helping from pressure brings exhaustion.
Poverty doesn’t always come from a lack of money; often it comes from a lack of boundaries. And the greatest losses don’t begin with big mistakes, but with small, misplaced “yeses.” Bringing order to your life is also a spiritual act.
